As I sit on my terrace
reflecting on the last 9 amazing months of my life and the experiences I have
had, I've realised what I have been through and if someone had told me I would
feel like this a year ago I wouldn't have believed them. Which got me thinking
if I could have given my pre-year abroad self some advice, what would I have
said...
Things I wish I could
have told my year ago self
No amount of meetings,
forms or internet articles will truly prepare you for the forthcoming 9 months.
You'll be scared, worried and you won't want to leave but you'll be okay, yes
you'll cry but you'd worry everyone around you if you didn't. The first few
days will be hard and even at the end of your year abroad the thought of going
somewhere new will still scare you, but you'll be able to do it easier.
At times you'll feel
homesick and I mean that genuine sick to the stomach feeling that you just
can't shake but you'll learn how to deal with it, how to make yourself feel
better and indeed how to help others when they feel the same. This will make
you appreciate home even more and know that when you get back things will still
be the same.
You'll feel lonely and
isolated but you'll also feel independent and worry free, everything balances
itself out.
You'll have some of the
happiest moments of your life and you won't ever forget the memories you have
made. Well, except those you made after 1 euro wine or buckets of Sangria.
Your language will improve,
at first you'll feel overwhelmed, you'll look blankly at everyone who speaks to
you and hope they say it in English. But then you'll have moments where you'll
think to yourself I can do this, where you are really proud of yourself,
you'll handle issues at work entirely in foreign languages, you'll make
phonecalls to solve problems. You'll forget that once you used to freak out
buying a stamp.
You will make the best
friends who will share some amazing experiences with you and become closer to
those you already knew.
You'll spend an awful lot
of time in airports, on planes and on trains. In fact at times it'll feel like
you spend more time travelling than on your year abroad, bear with it, it's
totally worth it.
Things will go wrong, just
go with it, every experience you have good or bad is an experience, just take
it as that.
Assignments from Hull
University are going make you want to hit your head on the table, you'll get
them done and end up with a pretty good mark, stress less, sunbathe more.
You burn, put on more
suncream. You're more ginger than you like to think you are.
It will go so fast. You'll
be sat on the penultimate day of your year abroad reflecting and wondering how
it has disappeared so quickly, enjoy every moment.
Ultimately you're going to
have the most amazing 9 months of your life. Enjoy it.
Someone once said 'The
world is a book and those who don't travel read only one page' but someone else
once said 'Home is where the heart is'. I like to think through my year abroad
I've believed in both those sayings and when I leave I will leave a little bit
of my heart where I've been so I will always consider them to be a part of me
and a part of my home.

































